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    Saturday, 27 April 2019






    Do you think its right for women to scream at their guys for looking at other ladies even when scientifically proven that he can't help it?

    Yes, he can’t help it.

    I have this lovely story to tell you. Remember, it’s a TRUE STORY.

    I was walking down the street with my beautiful girlfriend one evening. Then from nowhere, a lovely, beautiful, and sexy lady appeared. Unconsciously, just like it could happen to any guy out there, I checked her out by casually turning my head as she passed by. I was trying to play it off cool and not get caught. But, before I could even turn my head back, I knew I’d been caught. Yet, what happened next surprised me. I was totally swept off my feet!

    Instead of feeling jealous or screaming at me, or out rightly walking away, my girl just asked.. “That woman was very attractive, isn’t she?”

    My jaw almost hit the ground, and I had to clarify, “What did you say?”

    “That woman was attractive, don’t you think so?” she repeated.

    In a split seconds I had totally forgotten the woman I’d just admired, and my attention was instantly focused back on my girl. Not only was my focus back where it should have been, but I found myself wanting to hug the woman I love and plant a big, fat kiss on her—right there on the street, and to be honest, I did it. I lifted her up and carried her all the way home. 

    The street came to life!

    Did my girl really think that lady I looked at was attractive? Seriously, I have no clue. What I can tell you is that my girl didn’t make me feel like I am a cheat or a womanizer. 

    All my energy transferred from the unknown woman back to the love of my life in a matter of seconds—and I felt closer than ever to her. It was like magic.

    I think the take-away from this scenario serves up a valuable lesson to women everywhere. All women out there, take this one, AWAY!

    The fact is that most men check out other women, but it doesn’t mean we want to have S3x with them; We simply can’t help it and here’s why:

    1. Blame it on our noggins- Scientists say one of the most glaring differences between the male and female brain is that men have a S3xual pursuit area that is 2.5 times larger than the one in the female brain.

    As Louann Brizendine, M.D., author of The Male Brain explains it, just as cavemen sought out multiple mating partners so they could produce as many offspring as possible, the brain of the modern-day male (even a happily hitched one) is more or less programmed to always be on the lookout for a fertile mate. Did you hear that?

    Not to say that men intend to physically pursue any “visual enticement” they encounter, but there is still a deep-seated need to “check out the goods.”

    2. Testosterone plays a big role, too. We guys have six times more of this libido hormone surging through our veins than women do.

    Researchers found that testosterone impairs the impulse-control region of the brain.

    In other words, most guys likely look before they think.

    3. Visual creatures that we are, there’s also the “eye candy” factor. A new study shows that while women tend to feel attracted to familiar faces, men are more turned on by someone they’ve never seen before. Hahaha...men like them strange!

    The next time you catch your man turning his head to get a better look at a hot chick, ask yourself this: Would you get on his case for checking out a cool new car that just drove by? I didn’t think so. He doesn't have it, it isn't his, let him check'em out!

    So, what should you do when your guy notices an attractive woman?

    Avoid making your guy feel like he’s done something wrong. As tempting as it might be, giving him the silent treatment, or even making snide remarks about the woman he’s admired, saying, “She looks like a Slvt,” “Those bo*obs are fake, you know,” or “I guarantee you she bleaches her hair.” All of this screams insecurity and could quickly lead to an unnecessary argument. 


    I have personality experienced this though.

    Ignore it, since it’s likely fleeting. As Dr. Brizendine puts it, “Men look at attractive women the way we look at pretty butterflies. They catch the male brain’s attention for a second, but then they flit out of his mind.”

    Or better yet, acknowledge and draw attention to it in a playful, loving way.Then, watch how fast he shifts his focus back to you! Above all, remember that your man is with you because he loves you.

    The S3xy, beautiful, or classy woman he’s just checked out can’t even begin to compete with the BOND you’ve already established with him. And the emotional connection he has with you is way deeper than a quick look directed towards another woman.

    Also keep in mind that this isn’t just a guy thing. Studies show that women check out men, too. But, since you have peripheral vision that’s far superior to ours (meaning you don’t have to turn your head to give a hot guy the once over), you rarely get caught. You smart, you know?

    We have been learning from Todd Reed's Conversation is Sexy.

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    Beautiful piece.

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