If You Want To Receive, You Have To give First: The Power of Giving

Life has taught me a lesson i have carried all my life and that is the necessity of giving or being charitable. Some people give a lot by the way of time and knowledge/education, but will never give away money. They will always say, 'I will give when i have extra money' and of course, there is rarely an extra to give.

Successful and smart people like myself give money as well as education. I believe firmly in giving. If you want something, all you need to do is give FIRST! When you are short of money, the magic is to give, either to your church, the poor or to your favorite charity.

If i could leave one single idea with you, it is that idea. When ever you feel 'short' or in 'need', of something, give what you want first and it will come back to you in many folds. That's exactly what it is for money.

Check around you. Poor people are more greedy than rich people. The simple explanation is that if a person was rich, that person was providing something that peop…

Download TAKE(mp3) by iPraiz Horsfall

In our quest to make it in life; we likely keep aside a Super being in the Process; thereby hunting and struggling to see what we'd get from life and not what life(God) gives to us.

This has endeared iPraiz Horsfall, a Port Harcourt renowned and radical worshiper, after his previous single AMARACHI, to put up this inspired Prayer Song titled TAKE, cited from the book of Ephesians 5:18.

While we push for greener pastures; let's take cognizance of the only one who can make us to lie down in green pastures. In this, depression, suicide and other social vices will be far from us for God to TAKE full control.

God bless you!

Domestic Abuse Of Men By Women

Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Time bomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited…

There Is No Substitute For Family. Create Time For Them. Don't Wait For The FUNERAL!

The popular saying 'All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy' is significantly evident in the African society. We Africans live in a society where we work and slave all the days of our lives till death. A society bedeviled by poverty, corruption and greed, an insatiable people who choose to put money first before life, love and good health.

Africans will always try to imitate the whites who operate and live in a saner clime, but, we either do not imitate the right things or we just imitate half of the good ones. The world is embracing civilisation, but the African method of embracing civilisation is partial, selective and unfriendly to life and living.

Living and surviving in the African context means working from 07:00am to 10:00pm through the week without regard to love and good health which makes life worth living. I am talking about the African vacation.

The white man initiated casual and annual leave/vacation so that their staff or employees could have time for their…

Suicide: You Have To Live To Win

"I felt like everybody was against me. There was no hope. All I needed was a way to escape this wicked world with wicked and uncaring people everywhere. I wanted to leave..."

Hold on, don't leave yet. There is hope for you.

For years, issues concerning mental health has been downplayed by Nigerians, and the government. We believe that anybody exhibiting signs of mental challenges has a spiritual problem. We have attached spirituality and diabolism to virtually everything concerning mental health.

The society itself has been bedeviled by people who would rather try to become famous through your problems instead of genuinely helping you.

People no longer care about people around them. All cases of depression and other psychological challenges have been erroneously linked to poverty.

Psychological challenges like depression, PTSD, phobia, etc, cannot be erased with money. People think that with money, all their problems are solved. I'd like to inform you that pove…

What You Should Do When Your Guy Checks Out An Attractive Woman

Do you think its right for women to scream at their guys for looking at other ladies even when scientifically proven that he can't help it?

Yes, he can’t help it.

I have this lovely story to tell you. Remember, it’s a TRUE STORY.

I was walking down the street with my beautiful girlfriend one evening. Then from nowhere, a lovely, beautiful, and sexy lady appeared. Unconsciously, just like it could happen to any guy out there, I checked her out by casually turning my head as she passed by. I was trying to play it off cool and not get caught. But, before I could even turn my head back, I knew I’d been caught. Yet, what happened next surprised me. I was totally swept off my feet!

Instead of feeling jealous or screaming at me, or out rightly walking away, my girl just asked.. “That woman was very attractive, isn’t she?”

My jaw almost hit the ground, and I had to clarify, “What did you say?”

“That woman was attractive, don’t you think so?” she repeated.

In a split seconds I had total…

Do you know there’s a “Morning After” pill that protects against HIV? - Dr. Olu Funmilayo

'Yes, you heard me right. It’s called HIV Post Exposure Prophylaxis'

A Nigeria medical doctor living and working in the UK, through his Twitter handle @DrOluFunmilayo recently tweeted a thread where he as our 'Our Fav Online Doctor' educated us about a drug course or treatment which can be taken immediately after having an unprotected s3x with a prostitute or a suspected HIV patient so as to prevent us from getting infected. He called it Post Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP)

Read the thread below:

If you just had a very risky unprotected s3x and you don’t want to get HIV, go to a hospital.

PS- It has to be within 72 hours of the s3x.
So What is PEP?

PEP stands for post-exposure prophylaxis. It means the act of taking antiretroviral medicines (ART) after engaging in an activity (like unprotected s3x, sharing needles etc) that can potentially expose a person to HIV.

The aim is to prevent becoming infected.
Who should take PEP?

You should go to a hospital and speak with a doctor abou…